I dont think that if you are feeling imaginitave that the feeling of finding sex ammusing because the deal of taking out the few, times, made for the connection to a singnal of feeling for others because you have found a way to re-arrange the connections seems realist because "you", find someone to think of as "experimentive, or said so, experi-mental". I can see that if you approach the norm, the unexpected seems to get cluttered in the making of the explanation, you are falling into a catagorie, that is made a group, and will be subjected to the lifestye, any one person will express for you. If finding belonging with the action of being experimentive seems pleasing, does letting your lifestyle fall into the catagorie "of" belonging that is only expressed by, finding you allways "win", in the only way?

Burlington, Vermont